The Girly Girl's Guide to Father's Day

If you have trouble coming up with the perfect Father'sdigital camera memory card will leave him smiling.
Day gift, you're not alone. Choosing a thoughtful gift forThe point is to think about the things Dad loves doing
Dad can be fairly easy, but choosing a thoughtful giftbest and find gifts that relate. Does he barbecue dinner
that he'll like is another story.every night in the summer? Does a fine cigar make his
Mushy yet manlyweekend? Does he read The Economist cover to
When we're buying gifts for Mom, sentimentality iscover every week? Giving Dad a gift that reflects his
often the guiding force. A delicate ceramic figurine thathobbies and interests shows him that you love the guy
symbolizes your bond of friendship and trust will meanhe is and think he's altogether fabulous.
a lot to her. Try giving Dad the same gift you gaveSay it right
Mom and you'll get a confused look and a collectibleThe art of the Father's Day card is a subtle and
item that sits in its box on a shelf in the garage. That'sdifficult one to master. The same rules apply as above.
not to say that Dads don't appreciate sentimentalIf you and your dad don't exchange "I Love Yous" on
gestures, you just have to know how to do it right.a regular basis, an overly sentimental card may leave
Usually, men and emotions don't mix. They've got theirhim uncomfortable and unsure how to respond.
own ways of telling the people around them that theyWe suggest finding a blank card with a nice design
care. A slap on the back, a cold beer, an awkwardand writing in a few heartfelt words. Thank him for
joke - those are Dad's ways of saying, "You'resomething specific like helping you learn to drive or
important to me." So how do you get yoursupplying funds for extracurricular activities in college
communication styles to mesh?(shopping should be a sport). You don't have to go
A personal gift is worth a thousand embroideredoverboard on the mushy thoughts. A few phrases of
wordsappreciation for his support and hard work show him
To some women, a fish gutting knife is not a gift thatthat you know how much effort he's put in to providing
says, "Thanks for being a supportive and caringfor his family.
father." But to guys who love the great outdoors, thisNo two dads are the same. If your dad has a
Father's Day gift is a statement that you reallysentimental streak and has kept every one of his #1
understand your dad.Father trophies, you're on the right track with your gift
To show Dad how much you care, you have to showgiving strategy. If he's not particularly open about his
that you get who he is. If he's into sports, tickets to afeelings, focus on the things you do know about him.
game, a jersey from his favorite team or a cushion forShowing Dad that you love him for who he is can be
stadium bleachers are all wonderful gifts. If he's intothe best gift he gets.
techie gadgets, anything iPod, a laptop accessory or a